You are the controller of your life.
Have
you ever had times where you feel like you lose control of situations? Offline
or online? Personal issues? Career? Or just life? In reality you have full
control in anything that happens in your life.
When
I was 16 I got cyber bullied and went into depression. Then one day my father
told me snap out of it do not let your heart and mind control you. Stand up
tall and show that you control your body your body does not control you. That
is honestly the best motivational advice I have ever got, it has been keeping
me going for such a long time. I recently got heart broken in a long term
relationship out of the blue he just left and started saying horrible things.
My heart just dropped I experienced a sick feeling in my throat my chest felt
heavy I could not think right I just wanted to cry and cry. My mind started to
believe all the words he was saying to me they just repeated over and over
again, I could not stop thinking about him. But then I remembered that one
advice from my father. I thought to myself am I really like that? Am I all
those hurtful words he called me? Why should he describe who I am? I realised
he had control of my mind it was filled with his opinions and his words. In
reality I was nothing like that I started taking control of my mind and I told
myself I’m beautiful, Im confident, I’m special…. Slowly my life turned more
positive and yes the words still made me feel low and I thought maybe I’m just
kidding myself that’s when my heart comes in and my feelings but sometimes you
have to fight against your own body to be in control otherwise these words from
these people will make you believe it they will start to control your mind and
heart and you will feel like you have no control in life.
My
advice would be is to stay strong and you should be in control it’s your body,
your feelings and your life. I understand its hard maybe you should note down
the things you want to be or become if you think so negative about yourself and
just in your mind believe that you are these things and you can be it. Don’t let
your own self put up down you are in charge no one else show life who is the
boss keep your head up high and prove to everyone even yourself no matter how
much you get knocked down you can stand right back up with a smile. So promise
me that you will be in control of yourself no matter how much you push yourself
down you will stand right up and prove yourself wrong.
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