People mistake my
kindness for weakness and take advantage of our friendship.
Have you ever felt token advantage of? Or even used? Trust me,
I think everyone has and people always mistake your kindness for a weakness
that something they use it against you.
Honestly I have been there too. Im known as a normal quite
shy girl who is “too nice” but I have learnt from my mistakes that you have to
toughen up whether you feel bad about it or not. You need to learn if you be
too nice you have to be prepared to get hurt it is life. As a person I be nice
to people from the heart honestly but they always use me and take advantage and
it is kind of sad to say im used to it. They sometimes laugh at me but I know I didn’t
be nice for a certain reason I did it from the kindness of my heart and to be
honest they are the fools because I don’t need them they need me in the end of
the day. So never regret to be nice but always be prepared make yourself strong
enough for anything that would come your way.
Once I used to be very nice to this guy, used to pay for his
food, help with his work and a lot more. I used to be nice from the kindness of
my heart because I just wanted to make friends but the more I try the more I get
hurt it always happens and it still does but the worst part was when this
friend started taking advantage stopped being grateful. He got greedy and kept
asking and asking for more. He was the type to back bite but I’m not like that I
don’t judge people I don’t back bite and slowly it really annoyed me I started
to see what kind of person he truly was. He got to the point where he started
swearing at me but I still was being nice, I stood up for myself one day
because I wasn’t really happy being his friend. In the end of the day the fact
is he needed me I didn’t need him, he wasn’t doing anything good for me except
hurt me. I did get really hurt and upset I cried my eyes out because I was
being so nice to this person and he just took advantage of me. I just locked my
feelings away I stopped talking to people much to avoid being nice because when
I get attached to someone I be too nice and I always get hurt.
But I got taught that everyone is different and you will
always get hurt for being too nice its part of life. Only you allow someone to
take advantage of you as you are the only one that can put a stop to it before
it gets too late. You can’t be nice to someone if you cannot be nice to
yourself. Instead of worrying how that person would feel worry about how you
feel. So you better promise me if you’re reading this that you would put
yourself first. Thank you for reading and I hope my blog has motivated you and
has inspired you. If you need anyone to talk to or just a friend feel free to
message me, thanks.
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