You are the controller of your life.

You are the controller of your life.

Have you ever had times where you feel like you lose control of situations? Offline or online? Personal issues? Career? Or just life? In reality you have full control in anything that happens in your life.

When I was 16 I got cyber bullied and went into depression. Then one day my father told me snap out of it do not let your heart and mind control you. Stand up tall and show that you control your body your body does not control you. That is honestly the best motivational advice I have ever got, it has been keeping me going for such a long time. I recently got heart broken in a long term relationship out of the blue he just left and started saying horrible things. My heart just dropped I experienced a sick feeling in my throat my chest felt heavy I could not think right I just wanted to cry and cry. My mind started to believe all the words he was saying to me they just repeated over and over again, I could not stop thinking about him. But then I remembered that one advice from my father. I thought to myself am I really like that? Am I all those hurtful words he called me? Why should he describe who I am? I realised he had control of my mind it was filled with his opinions and his words. In reality I was nothing like that I started taking control of my mind and I told myself I’m beautiful, Im confident, I’m special…. Slowly my life turned more positive and yes the words still made me feel low and I thought maybe I’m just kidding myself that’s when my heart comes in and my feelings but sometimes you have to fight against your own body to be in control otherwise these words from these people will make you believe it they will start to control your mind and heart and you will feel like you have no control in life.

My advice would be is to stay strong and you should be in control it’s your body, your feelings and your life. I understand its hard maybe you should note down the things you want to be or become if you think so negative about yourself and just in your mind believe that you are these things and you can be it. Don’t let your own self put up down you are in charge no one else show life who is the boss keep your head up high and prove to everyone even yourself no matter how much you get knocked down you can stand right back up with a smile. So promise me that you will be in control of yourself no matter how much you push yourself down you will stand right up and prove yourself wrong.

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What's wrong with just being you?

What’s wrong with just being you?

Ask yourself these questions… why are you insecure? Do you like the way you look? Why does it matter? Doesn’t who you are inside count too?

Everyone is beautiful in their unique way, but everyone has flaws does not mean you need to be insecure. Two years ago I used to have anxiety I was scared about what people would say or think about me I still do sometimes but it is not as bad as before. I got over it when I really stressed about people saying things about me even people I do not know I used to walk around so paranoid I just build this some sort of fear inside me but these people never ever approached me that is when I realised I was really stressing over nothing these situation has happened to me so many times that I am used to it I do not let it get to me people anymore. Inside I knew I am a bubbly happy person full of light I help so many people in reality such as relationships, education and just to be a friend I try so hard to be there for people just so they do not go through what I have been through and these people I have helped have once hurt me but as a person I do not let it get to me because I know I am not a bad person but they do not like the way I dress or the way I do my hair well I do not care and neither should you.

Almost everyone judges it is life no matter what you do even if you are not yourself people will judge you so it is best to honestly just to be you. Never ever let these situation change the person you are inside and let that personality glow on the outside never pretend to be someone you are not it would just create a wall inside of your heart to stop you from glowing it would make you quite upset for a very long time do not make the mistake I did and barrier that inner glow in you. Once I started being myself I was so much happier I did what I want and said what I want it makes life so much easier people say things but it does not knock me down. It is not easy but take a step at a time it to me two years but it is worth it in the end.

So just be yourself and do not let people put you down or you put yourself down. Be happy and live life at its fullest like I said almost everyone judges but do not let it bother you it would not follow you from long even if it does you know you are not like that so do not let it get to you. So if you are reading this just always be happy and promise me you will be yourself, what is inside matters not out. Thank you for reading I hope I helped and advised well if you need help or support just message me. Also read my previous posts as they may help you and advise you.

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